funny you should mention the idea of 'enjoying trading' initialsbb - i had this conversation with someone the other day and below is a post i wrote about it on another forum- you may find this interesting even if you don't agree.
yesterday i had a conversation with a friend of mine who will remain nameless.
He's been a trader as long as I have although he had an 18 month gap of no trading inbetween.
We began talking about when you really know you are a trader.
If you enjoy trading and when it gets to your end of day you can't wait till tomorrow .....
you arent yet a trader.
Yep, thats what i said.
You are enthusiastic yes, you enjoy trading yes, you live and breathe trading yes. Until these things leave you then you will not (in my opinion) be a 100% trader consistently making money.
So, why do I say this, well first of all let me address those who are saying 'that's bollocks'
When you are new into trading (ie, the first 3 years) you are like a teenager and experienced traders are your parents.
When your parents tell you to do something, you don't do it. and think about this - when you parents said to you 'in a few years you will feel much differently' you thought, no i wont, i won't end up like that, ill keep on enjoying myself'
Nevertheless you did change and your parents prediction came true.
the basic thing is that when you are a teenager - you dont know what you dont know - you are totally unaware of what you haven't experienced yet.
So when i said to my mate, who is an experienced trader - that if you 'enjoy' the experience of trading, then you aint there yet - I fully expected him to come back and say, 'no, i will always love this job, it rocks my boat and that will never change'. he didnt dissappoint me and said exactly that, as i am sure many of you are saying now.
like i said - you dont know what you dont know.
When you can really call yourself a trader is when you look upon trading as purely a means to an end. A job, a way of making money. Much more than youve ever dreamed possible maybe, but a way of making money all the same.
You dont get the old buzz you got from placing a trade and watching the charts all day long, minute by minute.
You dont spend every spare minute testing new strategies or testing out the latest indicator. You actually take some time out to chill away from the markets and you are glad for it, not itching to get back.
You still get a buzz, but only when your end goal is realised - ie, a new account high or a good payday.
Entering the world of trading is an exciting thing to do. In the beginning you love it, get obsessed, tell your friends proudly that you are a currency trader and its that drive and determination that gets you through to the end when you finally can trade profitably and without emotion.
Rob booker says you need emotion to trade - i say that's bollocks and that emotions are the one thing that kills off 99% of new starts. (sorry Rob)
but you still have to go through it.
When you learn to swim the first thing you have to learn to do is not to drown. when you learn to drive a car your very first lesson teaches you how to stop the car so you dont hit anything.
Trading is the same - just that a driving lesson last an hour and your trading lesson that teaches you to drop emotion lasts about 4 years
so, to put this into a nutshell for you here's what to do to get yourself to be a proper trader (by my definition).
Be excited by the markets, get obsessed with trading, get obsessed with testing strategies. get the market in your blood and really enjoy it - sometime in the future you will begin to realise that your work has paid off - you have your methodology and it's making money.
continue to
try and foster that excitement day after day.
One day you will realise that it just does not excite you anymore, and no matter what you do to get excited it won't work. - you wont hanker to take that risky trade setup you see and watch the 1 minute chart for every twist and turn in the market and you wont give a toss about the latest umphadoompha indicator.
You'll realise that you are actually now, five years on since you started, a trader.
you got there - is it exciting anymore? can you still not wait for the next day to start?
No, you couldnt care less, just go through the motions of making money. Now it's time to get excited about how you are going to spend it when the pot gets bigger
The fun in anything is the journey to your destination - the key is realising when you have arrived and when you have that it's ok to stop and look around a while.
Truth of the matter is if i want to i can daytrade and make money with hilda or edgefinder but i choose not to - i choose to enjoy the fact that my job now gives me the opportunity to do whatever i want and at the moment, thats just to relax and bum around forums and take the long trade
Now I may be wrong - after all I also 'dont know what i dont know' - if there is a trader on here thats had more time than me in the markets as a daytrader then please, i'm very interested in finding out what i dont know and would love to hear from you.
If you have an opinion that's against this but have less than 5 years in the game then please - just wait till 5 years and then tell me i'm wrong.
My experience is, and it is only
my exerience, that you reach a point where you try to find ways not to trade.
initialsbb said that im saying i trade so i dont trade. well, it all depends on your definition of trading. 2 years ago i wouldnt have called what i do now 'trading' - to me trading is the fastidious study of the market - the use of numerous indicators, knowing when the news comes out and what the result is likely to be - taking trades north and south when my system gives me a perceived edge and living the highs and lows of the market - to me that is trading.
That is not what i do.
I never know when the news is due nor do i care. I don't study the charts trying to predict future moves, in fact i could do what i do without a single chart open with just a telephone to my broker. - (havent got that far yet that i dont have a chart open but i see it coming). So, i dont watch news, dont watch indicators, dont 'sweat' the action.
I place 1 trade a day and it wins or loses. i dont care if it wins or loses and feel no pain or pleasure from either.
The only time I get what you would consider a buzz is when i have a record breaking day for the amount of £ made - this happens about once a month as i compound winnings. - I suppose i could get excited if I broke my record of 280 pips in one trade or my record of 1850 pips in one week (dec 2004) but very little else would 'excite' me.
So what's left to be excited about or enjoy? - you just go through the motions.
Think about this - you would train for about 6 years to be a lawyer - all that time you would be excited to learn the job. you would be excited with your first cases for a year or two - but then it's just a job like any other.
6 - 8 years to train as a lawyer and i reckon 4-5 years to train to be a trader - anyone who tells you different is talking out of their hat and most likely has not had 5 years.
for those of you with a few months under your belt or just one year - take heart - you training period is less than that for a nuclear geneticist - they train for about 8-9 years and at the end of it earn around average wage - £23k in the UK if they are lucky.
In four years you could be on your way to earning that in a day.
Two weeks ago I had another highest day - it was £13,689. Yesterday i did £13,245 and it didnt buzz me as it was not a new record, next year if my current rate of growth continues i could be earning the equivalent to the annual wage of 5 nuclear geneticists in 1 day.
Is the pain and confusion for your next 5 years worth it - you bet it is
but there are no shortcuts,so stop looking for one and knuckle down- sorry.
I hope you enjoyed this post and that you take it in the spirit in which it is written